Are you not confined with your duvet partner? So why not let your libido go despite the distance.
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With the health context, distant couples are for some the choice of virtual hugs. Indeed, your libido is not confined and only asks to express itself despite the kilometers that separate you from your spouse. Why not increase the pressure by talking on the internet, with or without a webcam, or even by telephone?
To go further, make way for scenarios!
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The trendiest option, an exchange on Skype or on FaceTime, TikTok. You just need to call the other from your computer, tablet or smartphone by connecting the integrated camera. Once your partner has responded, it's up to you to let go of your emotions. Want to turn up the urge? Set a specific time for your virtual appointment. So you will spend the previous hours slightly distracted, most certainly stimulated by the idea of this meeting. But for the surprising side of the thing, you can also take your partner by surprise. A call... it connects and you directly display a look and/or an outfit that leaves no shadow of a doubt about your current mood.
Let your body speak!
Then a question arises. How to overcome the lack of physical contact and stimulation by the smell of the body of the other? How to do without the connection of the mental and the tactile, "without the intoxication of the caresses which pilots the gestures which will lead you to the bed, to undo the sheets, to undress...? asks Sébastien Bohler in the book “Sex & Brain”. Take an evocative posture in front of the camera, say sweet words (or a little less sweet), make movements with your body (slight undulations of the pelvis, wandering hands, dance to connoted music, striptease…). Enough to catch the attention of your partner who will then enter your little game.
Depending on your ease and your desire, you can stay more in suggestion and sensuality, so many attentions promising a tasty reunion. Besides, the phone can sometimes be enough to feel the excitement rising, his and yours. The voice also triggers its share of tensions!
Are you a little ashamed of these desires to the point of not fully assuming them? Don't worry, there are probably many people in your situation. But if your little inner voice is clearly telling you to take action, know that, “a vast majority of our erotic urges come from ourselves. A sexual life is a story of which we are the heroes and heroines”, explains Alexandra Hubin and Professor Charlotte Creplet in the book “Women, desires… and more if affinities”. Why not assume as long as your spouse is in the same dynamic as you!
I need Kiss, Call me NowIf you don't feel intimidated by the camera at all, then why not try something spicier. Ideas ? Discover your intimacy gradually by playing on views from afar and others closer, alternate between raw sentences spoken without moving and movements made in silence. Show your partner that you know the secrets of your body to reach the peak of pleasure, with or without a sex toy, stimulated by his presence, even virtual. The main thing is to be in harmony with yourself by doing this, and to feel that the person opposite adheres to this little scene.
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